Independent Adoption and Finding an Adoption Attorney
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In a private or independent adoption, prospective adoptive parents are ususally advised by an adoption attorney, instead of working with an adoption agency. Because adoption is, for the most part, controlled by state law, aspects of independent adoption vary from state to state, and you'll want to engage an experienced adoption attorney who is knowledgable about the differing requirements.
Read the full article: Independent Adoption.
Attorney Hiring Resources
- Tips for hiring an adoption attorney
- Adoption laws by state (PDF)
- AF Worksheet: Questions to ask your prospective attorney
Finding a Birthmother
- How to Write a "Dear Birthmother" Letter
What do you say when the merchandise on offer is your heart?
- The First Conversation
with a Potential Birthparent
In a first meeting, it is less important what you talk about than that you talk, and, most importantly, listen.
- Questions to Ask a Potential Birthmother
Tips to establish a warm relationship at your initial meetings
